I have a neightbor accross the street that I used to hang out with often. Both him and his wife worrked for GM. His wife is 10 years older than him and he retired from GM around 50. Ever since I have known them, his wife has been a nosey little bitty. She has nothing to do all day but sit in her home and talk about people. I have tried to avoid her as much as possible. Over the last few years she started to venture over to our home and tried to cause drama between me and the neighbors. I think this is something they used to do at the shop when they worked there. So I fianally said, hanging out with him is not worth the drama she brings with it and I stopped going over. She then came over to our home on a daily basis telling me how much he missed me coming over and telling me I have to go back over. That pushed me away further. That was about a year or so ago.
I should say, that I became a person over there who did 90 percent of the labor for them. If something needed to be moved, they called me. If they needed anything done in the house, they called me and expected I drop what I was doing and go over. I enjoyed helping and hanging out with him, so it was no big deal. It got to a point where I felt used rather than like a friend.
Here is where I need help:
This gentleman has property a ways away and did not have a good way of getting his quad to his property. I told him he could use my trailer if he stored it. This is a small 600 dollar trailer. I also said I expect that I will be able to use it also, so don't bury it in your barn. Well, I have not needed it since I let him use it 3 years ago and he has stored it. But, I do need it now and not talking with him for the last year has me skeptical on going and getting it.
I know that she will spread the word around the "hood" that I took it away from him for some reason. I am seriously thinking of going and buying a new trailer to avoid the drama. So, should I go get my trailer from him or should I go buy a new one?
All the neighbors know this lady and all but one hate her. The one she gets along with also worked at GM and I think she has some serious mental issues.
Thanks for the help.