My couplers don't get exercised much. front Snow Blower or FEL (winter or not-winter), BH on or off when needed but it doesn't seem to have this issue. When not connected, the couplers have the caps/plugs. Seems the front couplers have gritted up and are hard to slide. I do take all the pressure off with power off and let everything sit a little before starting. Wiggle the joysitcks again and again. I have tried SuperLube, WD 40, brake cleaner, compressed air, all to try to clean out the connector grit on the slide coupler. The balls seem ok, seals seem ok. It seems that I can't get the coupler to slide open far enough by hand for it to release or when reconnecting. I have taken to using a open end wrench just the size of the coupler that lets me push it down harder evenly. I am thinking of making a special tool to do that job. A T-handle wrench that lets me push directly on the coupler with the 'wrench' part ground to size and shape sounds about right. I try to make sure they are clean and free moving before reassembly, but I must have bad karma at times.
Oh, a couple times when I got the coupler to move ok when reconnecting, I ended up with pressure in the disconnected FEL line. Maybe a shift or temp change. I just couldn't push the fitting in far enough to engage. I use channel lock pliers and a craft stick (I have lots of those) on the pressure ball all wrapped in a rag to release it. Works a lot better and no fluid in the face. Wish Ken was still selling that Waite tool.
So far no signs of rust or corrosion I can find. Just the gritties.