The tenor of this thread reminds me of the old Henny Youngman joke: "Doc, it hurts when i do this...(flexes arm at the shoulder). Doctor: "Then don't do that!".
Seems to me a simple solution...If I don't like a particular forum or a thread, I don't waste my time on it; don't participate, read or even visit. There may be a thread on here somewhere about "Learning to play the harp", but I can't see me giving a big old rodent's derriere, one way or the other.