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every now and then buy her a new mixer, air fryer, vacumme etc.......i never hear a word about tools .......my tools ...her tools .....i fix stuff for her with my tools......she feeds me and cleans with hers......win win

Big difference here...

Guys are thrilled when they receive a new tool as a Christmas gift, women no so thrilled if they get a new vacuum for Christmas.