I've run into this more than once. The bottom line is (no pun intended) its not a fast easy fix. The "easiest" way is as Kenny said.. swapping around the valve bodies in the stack. I've never done it. heard of it done. I dont know what other issues you may run into. With excavators, its much easier. Find the swap valve and flip it. Bam.. ISO to SAE. Or as in the older days, you had to go inside and swap 4 lines around.. no problem. The reason was.. they are pilot controlled hydraulics. Either with actual oil lines running up to the joy sticks, or now with fly by wire EH controllers in the joy sticks that control the pilot oil to shift the spools in the valve. With wobble sticks you are at the mercy of the wing nut engineer who designed it. I refer to it as an articulated log splitter with a bucket. On some, yur right, swap lines and go, no problem. On others, move the stick and its gone!
And I agree HH they could have done a lil more in the cylinders to keep em from banging so bad during entension and retraction. It would have been a simple machine process on the rod end piston to make it slow as it extended or retracted.